THE FORGOTTEN CHILD

       I PITY BOY CHILD

We have all been trying to save the girl child. This is because they were discriminated since long time ago. They had no voice in the society and everyone was crying all over the world trying to save them. Many organizations have been formed but who said we should neglect boy child? Poor boy child nowadays they have been neglected. 

Girls are now performing more better than boys it is not that am against it but the truth is because there is no one to support boy child.  They even go to schools without pocket money and parents expect them to cater for themselves. Our parents think that when they fail to give girls what they need, they will go on looking for sponsors or use some weird ways to get money. Who said boys can not do these and that's why they are dating older women to get money and some have even engaged in drugs. Things get worse when they go to universities whereby most boys are left alone to cater for themselves and at the same time he has a girlfriend who is given everything but expects the boy to cater for her and when he fails they post everywhere that they are single. What a  pity to our boy child.

Everyone thinks that the boy child is safe you go in most homes they are the  ones who are sent late at night because girls can be raped and such cases but who said boys can not be harassed sexually or perhaps be killed? The root of all this started back into our families trying to protect the girl child but it is time we come back into our senses and remember our boys who are being harassed sexually, emotionally, physically and psychologically. The problem with boys is that they suffer silently because they have no one to hear their cry. They fear because no one will listen to them. In stead of helping them we mock them and we expect love from them. Let's stop lying to ourselves.

In relationships girls are also too demanding. Valentine's was just few days ago a day when men wish they could die and resurrect the next day due to high demands coming from women. What do we expect from a student who is not supported to buy his girlfriend expensive things and take her out to dinner. Some girls are even worse they carry a bunch of girlfriends and expect the boy to cater for everything I think this is the highest form of slavery. When we change a day of love to a day where we expect to dig a lot of money from men or expect very expensive things from them.

A man can easily be beaten up by a lady because everyone thinks ladies are the only one to be protected. Is it because men do not feel pain or what is happening. We are protecting girls more I wonder who will marry the girls who are well guided because there is no one to guide boys. In the near future there will be no husbands because of what we are doing. Let us balance everything because when we give more pressure on the other side the other side suffers. Girls were suffering due to this but nowadays men are suffering silently and that's the problem.

Let us support them if we want good husbands and fathers in future. Let us  not think that boys do not suffer. Nothing is good as being fair. We  wanted fairness but everything is get worse. Let us listen to them and give them what they want. It is time we realise the mistake we made or our girls will also suffer because they are going to live with men who are depressed and what do we expect after that. Anyway join me next week as we continue